Rowdy: Let's back up a sec'.
Your control stick should have its own stops, independent of those in the rotor head. At any extreme control-stick angle, the stick's stops should engage just before the head's stops.
This arrangement does two helpful things. First, it prevents the application of high compression loads to the pushrods, which are relatively weak in compression. Second, it helps to prevent bending loads on the stems of the rod-end bearings. Bending loads will break the bearing stems in time -- obviously a lethal occurrence.
All of this means that the stick assembly and the rotor head assembly must be harmonized so that, with their respective leverage ratios, the stick has just a little less total range of motion than the head. Again, the stick stops must engage first.
A typical gyro rotor cruises at a SPINDLE angle of about 9 degrees to the horizon in level flight. The rotor disk is actually flying a couple degrees aft of this angle -- say 11 degrees -- which is the reason for the offset. But your spindle, and your torque bar, should be inclined about 9 deg. aft of vertical (spindle) or level (torque bar) when the stick is centered.
Depending on your gyro's tail design, you may need to fly with the spindle tilted slightly left or right to compensate for engine torque (large centered tail surfaces reduce or eliminate this need). It's probably best to start with the spindle vertical in the lateral plane when the stick is vertical, though. You can adjust later if you find you are holding the stick off-center in the lateral plane.
Giro 5: The head angle at stick-neutral would be 9-10 deg. aft relative to the keel on any gyro whose keel is intended to fly level (i.e. keel is the datum). On a Bensen, this would mean that the head would be exactly square to the mast at stick-neutral. On a Gyrobee, the head would be 9-10 degrees aft of the mast with stick neutral.